Importance of Sex Marriage
So why is sex so important in Marriage?
1. It makes your partner feel appreciated
Well I have always said that Sex most times is the only intimate way we appreciate someone we love. Train your husband/wife to turn you on. A lot of this will be relationship and communication issues. Regularly communicate to him/her what really excites you in bed coz bedroom technique is very important. He/she must become a student of what turns you on, so, over time, tell him in detail what excites you, where and how to kiss and touch you. Don’t expect him/her to know everything. Every woman/man is different. Use the positive-feedback approach when correcting his touch. “Hmmm, that’s nice and sweet baby, but ‘’like this’’ is even better.”, rather than “Don’t do it like that…” Make your partner feel so appreciated with his/her efforts than make him/her feel so guilty with all one feels is exciting you. Your goal is regular sexual satisfaction and frequent orgasms because without an orgasm a woman or man can not feel sexually satisfied.
2. Makes your partner feel loved and desired
Sex in marriage so often makes your partner feel desired all the times.Some women wait for a man to always initiate sex in marriage,it is not supposed to be that way.Make your man feel desired all the times.Nice sex text messages etc.It does not have to start from the bedroom.Preparation for sex can start from anywere.You don’t have to overwhelm your partner with lavish gifts to make them feel special,loved and desired, NO.Most times its the thought that counts. To make sure your partner knows what a wonderful human being you think they are, tell them so often how sweet you feel when you make love to them. Compliments and small acts of kindness on your part also help boost his/her self-esteem and make your partner feel special but even when you make love with all her/his efforts and you still do not appreciate, you keep complaining,it becomes so depressing and your partner tends to fill undesired. Again, keeping in mind that what your partner wants most is for you to desire them.
3.Helps your partner gain Confidence in themselves
Wanting to have sex with your partner makes them feel good about themselves that someone appreciates them in bed all the times without begging for sex. This gives them the confidence that when I ask won’t be denied.Your desire for your partner must go beyond making him feel wanted and loved. Your desire is a bedrock form of support that gives your partner power to face the rest of his/her daily life with a sense of confidence and well-being.
4. Helps partners deal with stress and emotional instability.
NOW,to regain a positive sex life, couples need to find a way to put sex back to the top of the list. Both partners must redirect some energy toward their relationship with each other, and get over feelings of guilt or excuses that they are too busy, or too tired.
Remember, you reap what you sow. If you sow a lazy attitude towards marriage and sex, you will reap a lousy marriage. If you sow a boring, predictable, same-old-thing sex life, you will reap a frustrated, inattentive husband/wife. This works both ways. If your husband sows inattentive, unaffectionate, unhelpful and unromantic practices, he will reap a wife not interested in sex and his own frustrations. A husband and wife must take equal steps toward each other to meet each other’s needs of sex in a home.Some partners don’t realize how powerful good sex is in getting a wife/hubby in touch with this relationship side. The more a partner feels loved sexually, the more they open up to meet the affectionate, romantic, and communicate their needs. So if you sow an uninhibited, creative sex life, you will reap a more romantic partner.